5 Habits of Spanish People That May Seem Strange to Indonesians

Spain has captured the global imagination following its triumphant victory in the 2026 FIFA World Cup, a feat that solidified the nation’s status as a contemporary footballing powerhouse. While the world celebrates the technical prowess of the Spanish squad on the pitch, the sudden surge in international interest has turned a spotlight onto the unique cultural tapestry of the Iberian Peninsula. For many international observers, particularly those from Southeast Asian nations like Indonesia, the daily routines and social norms of Spanish citizens present a fascinating, and at times perplexing, contrast to Eastern traditions. These cultural idiosyncrasies, ranging from unconventional dining schedules to specific social etiquettes, are deeply rooted in centuries of history, geography, and a distinct Mediterranean philosophy toward life and work.
The Global Context of the Spanish Cultural Resurgence
The year 2026 has been a landmark period for Spain. Beyond the sporting success that saw millions of fans flocking to Madrid and Barcelona, the country has experienced a significant uptick in tourism and cultural exchange. According to data from the World Tourism Organization (UNWTO), Spain remains one of the top three most visited countries globally, with a projected 90 million international arrivals by the end of the year. This influx of visitors has led to a renewed discourse on "cultural shock," as travelers navigate the specific social landscapes of Spanish cities.
For Indonesians, whose culture is often characterized by the concept of gotong royong (communal cooperation) and a high emphasis on formal politeness and early schedules, the Spanish way of life can seem diametrically opposed to their own. However, experts in sociology suggest that these differences are not merely superficial but are structural responses to Spain’s unique historical trajectory.
The Midnight Feast: Why Spain Dines Late
Perhaps the most immediate challenge for any Indonesian traveler in Spain is the timing of meals. In Indonesia, dinner is typically consumed between 6:00 PM and 7:00 PM, aligning with the tropical sunset. In contrast, Spanish households rarely sit down for dinner before 9:00 PM, and it is entirely common to see families dining in restaurants as late as 11:00 PM or midnight, especially during the summer months.
This phenomenon is not a matter of mere preference but is tied to a historical anomaly. In 1940, General Francisco Franco moved Spain’s clocks forward one hour to align with Nazi Germany, despite Spain being geographically situated in the same longitudinal zone as the United Kingdom and Portugal. This means that Spain is effectively in the "wrong" time zone. Consequently, the sun sets much later according to the clock than it does in other parts of Europe.
To bridge the gap between a late lunch and an even later dinner, the Spanish have developed a sophisticated multi-stage eating schedule. The day often begins with a light desayuno (breakfast) between 7:00 AM and 9:00 AM, followed by a second, more substantial breakfast around 10:30 AM. The main meal of the day, la comida, occurs between 2:00 PM and 4:00 PM. This is often followed by the merienda (afternoon snack) and the hora de vermut (the vermouth hour), where light appetizers and drinks are enjoyed. This staggered approach ensures that the late-night dinner is a social event rather than a desperate necessity for calories.
The Paradox of the Bar Floor: Litter as a Sign of Success
In many global cultures, including Indonesia, a clean floor is the primary indicator of a well-maintained establishment. However, in traditional Spanish tapas bars and tabernas, a floor littered with used paper napkins, olive pits, and shrimp shells was historically viewed as a badge of honor. For decades, a "dirty" floor signified that the bar was popular, the food was excellent, and the service was so fast that there was no time to sweep.

While modern health regulations and changing attitudes toward hygiene have led many establishments to move away from this practice, the tradition persists in many authentic corners of Andalusia and Madrid. For an Indonesian observer, this might appear as a lack of environmental awareness. In reality, it reflects a specific cultural logic: the bar is a space for high-energy social interaction where the formalities of the "pristine" are discarded in favor of the "authentic." Workers typically sweep the floors several times a day during lulls in service, but during peak hours, the debris is a testament to the kitchen’s success.
The Neutral Gaze: Understanding Spanish Social Reserve
Indonesia is frequently cited as one of the friendliest countries in the world, where smiling at strangers is a standard social lubricant. This can lead to a sense of "smile shock" when Indonesians visit Spain. To a newcomer, Spanish people might appear stern or indifferent because they do not habitually smile at people they do not know.
Sociologists categorize Spain as a "high-context" culture in specific social settings but one that values "authenticity" over "performative politeness" in public spaces. In Spain, a smile is often reserved for a genuine reaction or a known acquaintance. A neutral expression when walking down the street or entering a shop is not a sign of hostility but rather a respect for the other person’s private space.
However, this "cold" exterior evaporates the moment a conversation begins. Once engaged, Spaniards are known for being exceptionally warm, helpful, and talkative. This distinction between the "public stranger" and the "social participant" is a crucial nuance that many travelers overlook. In the Spanish worldview, a smile given to everyone loses its value; a smile given to a friend is a meaningful gift.
The "Dos Besos" Etiquette: A Standard of Physical Proximity
While the initial gaze might be neutral, the actual greeting in Spain is far more intimate than what is common in many Asian cultures. The dos besos (two kisses) is the standard greeting between women and between men and women. This involves touching cheeks and making a kissing sound, starting with the right cheek and then the left.
In Indonesia, physical contact between genders in social greetings is often more conservative, frequently limited to a handshake or a respectful nod (the sungkem in Javanese culture). The Spanish insistence on the double kiss, even upon meeting someone for the first time in a social setting, can feel like an invasion of personal space for those unaccustomed to it.
Data from cultural studies indicates that this practice serves as a rapid social equalizer, breaking down barriers and establishing a baseline of trust. It is important to note, however, that professional environments are increasingly adopting the handshake as a standard, and the dos besos is generally not practiced between two men, who typically opt for a firm handshake or a hug (abrazo) if they are close friends.
Vocal Passion: The Volume of Spanish Life
The final habit that often startles Indonesians is the sheer volume of Spanish conversation. To the uninitiated, a group of Spaniards having a lively discussion in a cafe can sound like a heated argument. The speech is rapid, the volume is high, and the hand gestures are expansive.

In many Indonesian cultures, particularly Javanese, speaking loudly is often associated with a loss of emotional control or a lack of refinement (halus vs. kasar). In Spain, however, a loud voice is an indicator of ganas—passion, interest, and engagement. Silence or a low-volume conversation can be interpreted as a lack of interest in the topic or the company.
This "vocal density" is also a byproduct of Spanish urban design. Many Spanish cities are built with narrow streets and stone buildings that echo, and the culture of outdoor living means that people are constantly competing with the ambient noise of a bustling city. Over centuries, this has necessitated a higher baseline volume for effective communication.
Analysis of Implications and Broader Impact
As Spain enters a new era of global prominence following the 2026 World Cup, understanding these cultural nuances becomes more than just a matter of curiosity; it is an economic and diplomatic necessity. The "Spanish Fever" has led to an increase in bilateral trade and educational exchanges between Europe and Asia.
For the tourism industry, the challenge lies in managing expectations. Spanish tourism boards have recently launched campaigns aimed at explaining the "Spanish Schedule" to international visitors to prevent frustration regarding closed shops during the traditional afternoon break (siesta hours) or the late opening times of restaurants.
From a sociological perspective, the persistence of these habits in an increasingly homogenized, globalized world is a testament to the strength of Spanish identity. While the world may be moving toward a 24/7 digital economy, Spain remains a bastion of "slow living" in specific areas—prioritizing the meal, the conversation, and the social connection over the rigid efficiency of the clock.
For Indonesians and other global citizens, these "strange" habits offer a valuable lesson in cultural relativity. What appears as "lateness" is actually a different relationship with time; what appears as "loudness" is an expression of vitality. By embracing these differences, travelers can move beyond the surface of the tourist experience and engage with the true heart of the Spanish spirit, which, much like their football team, is defined by passion, resilience, and a flair for the dramatic.







